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With this new dating website, any person on the internet can instantly find your ad and send you an e-mail. They don't have to pay any money, or be a member, or create their own ad, or sign up, or do anything at all! There is no "memberships". They just click on the search link, specify the match whom their looking for, and if your ad matches their requirements, they'll see your ad! Then they just click, and send you an e-mail. It's that simple! It's very fast, very easy, and completely free!
Now, let's compare this to the the other dating websites out there. With them, only people who bothered to sign up, fill out all the pages and pages of forms to create their own profile, can even see your ad. But still even then, they can't send you a message, unless and until they also pay a monthly fee (usually around $25-$30 every month!)
What if your potential dream date happened to see your ad, but couldn’t send you a message because they weren’t a paid member? You’d be S.O.L. Think of how unfair that is - every month you're paying a fee, but still you can't get messages from even the people who did sign up with their own profile unless they themselves also pay money. And further, all the people out there who don't create their own profile, won't ever even see your ad, let alone be able to respond to it. To better illustrate the point, consider the following example: Suppose you were paying for an ad in the newspaper to sell a product. What if the newspaper then said to you that you couldn't list your own phone number in the ad, and instead that any potential buyers would have to call the newspaper first and pay them a fee, and only then would they forward the message to you. How many calls do you think you'd get? And further still, what if the newspaper also said to you that they only will let the certain people who have an account with them even see your ad?
With this site, we feel that a paying customer should have maximum visibilty and exposure to all potential matches out there. After all, the whole point of posting an ad in the first place, is so that the right person can come along and see it and respond to it. If you were selling a product, you'd want as many people as possible to know it's for sale, and for them to be able to just pick up the phone and give you a call if they were interested. And by posting a dating ad, essentially you're advertising and selling your most valuable product: yourself. So if you're looking for a compatible person, you shouldn't be limited as to who can find you and contact you.
And if you follow the advice on creating an alternate e-mail account, you can completely avoid virtually all spam e-mails, and also avoid most of the unwanted replies too.